I think I need to just let go, and let her do whatever damaging behavior she wants to do. It is so hard, I want to SCREAM at her "stop this crap-grow up, you are a mother for Christ sake".
I have my court hearing today for the temp. restraining order at 1500. Should have my boys after that.
Folks, I don't know what to do with her anymore. I have done EVERYTHING I was supposed to do. It just seems that she is just...gone.
SD,
It is WAY early in this "game." Stick with the plan, and let go of those things over which you have no control - her behavior and choices. All of your feelings are completely understandable and normal.
Listen to your L and stay calm and professional during the hearing today. Right now, YOU have the advantage right up to the point you lose your composure and give the judge the wrong impression about you. DON'T do that. It will only help HER.
Take some time to sort through the emotions and ask yourself some tough questions - do you want her back at all? Time will help you resolve this. You have to be very careful here that you base your decision on reasoned thought and not emotion.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck in your hearing today. You will do just fine.
