Heal and rest and thank you so much. Anyone else reading this with experience on starting over, please help with advice
Very happy for you!
I have no experience of it, yet. What I would say is tread very carefully. And don't take him back without a fight from him. Remember, believe nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do.
He needs to SHOW you, by his actions, that he wants to come back to YOU, the M and to commit himself 100% to recovery. Not 99%, 100%. Let him show you that. But be string, have boundaries and don't be a doormat.
This is a step in the right direction, but you're by no means at the end of the journey.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"