Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Well, yesterday did not end well for me in my quest. Turns out the OM WAS the single SSG living in the barracks. He told his Chain that my W told him initially that she had been divorced since Mar 09. They met o/a 14 Nov-so he says. They went on 3 dates-so he says-and then on Dec 1st, she told him that she was still married, but had filed for divorce. He told his Chain, that there was no sex involved-LIE, and that the relationship was over.

This completely does nothing in my quest to db with my wife. I think that she is hopping from Soldier to Soldier trying to latch onto one. She literally wants NOTHING to do with me-and I beleive HATES me. I am beginning to think that the Warrant Officer I saw her with yesterday, may be her newest conquest.

I think I need to just let go, and let her do whatever damaging behavior she wants to do. It is so hard, I want to SCREAM at her "stop this crap-grow up, you are a mother for Christ sake".

I have my court hearing today for the temp. restraining order at 1500. Should have my boys after that.

Folks, I don't know what to do with her anymore. I have done EVERYTHING I was supposed to do. It just seems that she is just...gone.

Well, I am excited to hopefully getting my boys for consecutive days, and heading to my Mothers for Christmas soon.