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yes, i feel i am. but some fear is holding me back??? maybe abandonment???


Rob, you are saying things I use to hear women say when they depended on the H for their livelyhood. You are a man! You don't have to have a woman to support you or make you happy. You don't even have to have one to escort your around town. Get yourself dressed up and get out of that house. Stop staying there watching her kill you softly everynight. If she is not home......then you still need to get out and stay out late.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!