The speed of the operation is the exact opposite of that. The fact they are moving so fast is a good sign. They move really fast these days when they see stuff like this. My mum got an extra 10 years because they operated so quickly.
Oh that's good so I am close enough to my MIl I would say - she was the only one(with FIL) who actually cared after we split up - and she is great with the kids.