Oooooh but mindfull, where is the fun in that? The angst, the moping, the secrecy, the bittersweet make-belive, the romance, the thrill? Trust the LBS to come up with that kinda logic to take the fun out of anything! Sheesh!
Ok, flippant moment aside, Luv, how do you feel about needing to uncover indiscretion(s) to make better sense of what is happening? And if there aren't any right now, it looks like H is gearing himself up to look for one, no?
Also have to say, it struck me how much I freaking hated that word as I typed. "Indiscretion". Bleah. My W used it all the time. Felt like running someone over hot coals and then saying "Oh yes, I may have warmed him up somewhat".
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.