Hi Undefeated, you wont get a 2x4 from me. You cant undo what youve done, and I dont think that it was all that bad anyway. Now that you have had a nice convo with him, and gotten everthing out in the open as far as the Inlaws go, go dark! Well, with the IL's as dark as you can with them coming to visit, it will be harder, but you have said your peice, and now you can let it lie with your head (mostly) clear.

Do you take any antidepressants or anti anxiety meds? Very often, it can really help you. And you can call Military One Stop, its a website too, and I think that you can get either 4 or 6 counselling sessions for free above and beyond what Tricare can offer. And, like all counselling, its totally confidential, so you can talk openly about the A, and not worry about your H hearing about it.

They will also set you up with a free consultation with a lawyer, hopefully it wont come to that- but its good to know!

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...