A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Well, I think I do need to mention amounts based on a lot of stuff from past history together. Specificity is a lot of what he was talking about when he said I was never clear about what I wanted.

"Help more with housework" is vague.

"I want you to take full responsibility for the dishes," is specific. In fact, unless I'm missing more than I think even the DB stuff says to get as concrete, quantifiable and specific as possible.

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