Re: demanding... There's a rock and hard place issue here. Referring back to our most recent R talk - which I think I journalled about a few posts back, one of the take-home messages for me was that regardless of how clear I thought I was being, H never did hear a strong, clear message about what I wanted or needed. In fact, he heard anything but. So on the one hand, now I've been very clear and explicit.
On the other hand, yeah, he's called me demanding before and yeah, it will tick the heck out of me if he goes there with this. Darned if you do and darned if you don't.
Also, maybe it's just me as the author, but I see a ton of wiggle room in what I've written. It's not "2x per or I walk". It's "Once or twice..." I guess I don't see once or twice a week or once or twice a month as a big deal? Am I not seeing the forest for the trees?
Well, it's sent, so will see which way the wind blows soon enough. We had our Boy Scout Christmas dinner tonight so we've been out all evening.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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