I am just a little pissed right now b/c she does not have to deal with tired kids in the morning when getting them off to school b/c they got to bed too late.
Don't see that as a chore (and I know this may sound daft) but see it as a blessing that you get to do that stuff in the morning. I wish I did again (my D lives with me only at weekends at the moment).
Your W doesn't get to do this anymore. She may see this as a blessing but I think, given the choice, she'd rather deal with the tired grumpy kids in the morning that what she is doing currently.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"