So, I'll ask and please be kind, Should I entertain this at all?
AFWAW, where do you find yourself being happy in the midst of all of this? If you continue to "entertain" her (personality traits) a year? two? seven years down the road, do you see yourself then where you want to be mentally and physically?
I think you like may people on this site know the answers to their own questions they just dont know how to ask them to themselves correctly.
