I did have to smile a bit on your post G. and yes, you ARE in WAR mode!
Luv, I really don't think that approach is the right approach though. lol first, what is your vision? what do you really want in the end? next, you will need to look at the choices you will make and ask yourself "will this get me further or closer to my vision?"
If the best thing is for you to not go run away, then try to make yourself busy in other ways. the less time your around him right now will probably be better. your emotional level is not at a level to deal with him in the appropriate way. a way that you can remain calm and cool.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
