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feel sick. want to vomit. she just kissed me hello and is eating her late dinner.!!!! help!!!


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Originally Posted By: rob668
Do I say something and look like the pursuing spy.


Dunno. Is that how you want to look?

Get your emotions in check first. (By giving it a day)

Stop your head from spinning and your imagination from running wild and get your facts straight. What do you know for sure?


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Calm, I over reacted at first too soon. Calm, settle, relax. Go somewhere if you have to.
Calm, settle, listen here for advise.

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Originally Posted By: rob668
feel sick. want to vomit. she just kissed me hello and is eating her late dinner.!!!! help!!!


why did her kiss taste funny?

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Yeah it sucks, those feelings you have right now are awful.

Relax and understand this will pass.

Slow down and keep your cool around her until you get your feet back under you.

Hell fake it tonight if you have to, but DO NOT mention anything to her while you are all spun out.

Take a deep breath, find something to do for now and try to relax.


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only that her car was at his apt. once in the summer she told me (unsolicited) that she went for a coffee with this "Friend". But if youve been following my thread...it make sense.I'm trying to breath right now...but hurting and sick!!!


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will do, thanks. need a xanax about now!!!


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Chill for now.

Maybe it does make sense, but still, give yourself time to decide how you want to handle this.

Nothing good will come from confronting her about this tonight.

Take your time get yourself straight first.

Chess not Checkers


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thankyou, thankyou thankyou. a 48 yo guy about to cry.


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((((((rob))))))))

hang in there buddy


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