I am so sorry Day by Day - I haven't really digested the news yet. I told him to call me if he needs to talk and I think I will drop X-Mas day in our house - he should be home with his mom - I have no information at this stage how bad it is - just that she will be operated on Friday which is pretty fast.My husband was worried that the speed of the operation is a bad sign.
The speed of the operation is the exact opposite of that. The fact they are moving so fast is a good sign. They move really fast these days when they see stuff like this. My mum got an extra 10 years because they operated so quickly.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"