how to 180 when you've been too independent?

[avermont]

Well, it is a joint account. If I were him, I would want to review the joint account on a regular basis to make sure all was on the up and up.

And yes, it is my one chance to see him, look all gorgeous, act all cool, etc.

I don't have enough contact with him to really "track" things. Let's see: October: at the house; I act all normal and friendly; he's cranky and angry and leaves in anger.

So...in December do I act more cold and withdrawn? Just for something different?

But remember---this is the guy who never felt confident I loved him. I never pursued. So--again--how to 180 when you've been too independent!!!

aggg..