I did not lose my temper with her over the phone but none the less she hung up when the short conversation turned to her getting my S9 home on time for a school night. P17 you are more than right and I think I was avoiding all the typical divorce parents issues, visitation, neutral exchange points, homework, etc. etc. etc. I am just a little pissed right now b/c she does not have to deal with tired kids in the morning when getting them off to school b/c they got to bed too late. I did not want to go the route of the escalating arguments about money, kids, visitation, etc. I guess that after reading DR and being here I could somehow avoid all this S&*t, and potentially save my M. It is time to set some big time BOUNDRIES until we settle a separation agreement. I am more than detatched right now, I definitely don't want this person back in my life. I don't know how I will feel in the morning but I know I am doing what is best for my kids. This is officially VENTING for those of you reading.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.