Don't know if I read it here, but just like WAS was detaching way before we found out about the A, while they are in the A, we are working our butts off improving ourselves and GAL, that when they wake up, we will be far beyond them in healing.
I've said that before myself. They don't get a chance to go through all the stuff we go through to make us better people. When they wake up, we have already dealt with our issues, improved ourselves, have a REAL life and have moved on. They are still stuck with the same problems and haven't changed at all.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
