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[P17]

Bluerain, thanks agian for your input. I do value it.

It also means that shes not processing these things, when her affair does fail, there will be even more fallout for her.

I did predict a while ago that when the A fails (and whether that is today, tomorrow, next week or in 5 years I truly believe it will fail at some stage but I also feel it will be too later for me - that's another story) I predicted that W will fall apart and have a breakdown. I've only got the following evidence:

We dated 6 months and I was an a$$ and, without going into too much detail, told her I didn't want it anymore as she was being needy. Next day, realised what a HUGE mistake I'd made and realised she was the 'one', walked out of work and rushed over to see her (hours drive). When I got there she was sitting, on her sofa, in her dressing gown (in the middle of the morning) in a daze. I tried for a week to get through to this ice maiden and nothing worked (her aunt eventually got through to her and we reconciled). My point is that after 6 months of going out, she fell apart.

What is she going to be like after a 7 year relationship and a 3.5 year marriage ends. Or should I say what is she going to be like when she processes her feelings about them. That will be after the A ends of course, when she is alone and thinking.

Oh, and my gut also tells me this.