Sandi, thanks. I understand that many people can't relate and it is hard for them to hear because it is so painful. I would feel that way too if I were on the outside looking in.

I'm trying to learn how to stand up to him as I have just only recently - since being on this board actually - realized I was verbally abused.

My main issue is my child.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship