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[P17]

Thanks P17, its been a long road, but Im proud of where I have ended up. Of course, my ex is miserable, so that helps too! lol

Every cloud and all that

I dont think that shes necessarily "going dark". I think that shes ignoring your existence and enjoying the guilt free pursuit of her affair. If she doesnt have to talk to you, then she doesnt have to feel bad about the lousy things that shes doing.

Hmmm. Not what I wanted to hear but hey, that's not why I'm here The last thing I think any of us want to hear is her having a great time with the OP and they have forgotten or ignoring us.

On the other hand, just because she is ignoring me and her guilt, doesn't mean it goes. Guilt needs to be released and dealt with by forgiving yourself. Ignoring it will make it worse when it's finally released. At least that's my take on it.

Then again, once more I may just be looking for a spin on things that isn't really there.