The continuing saga of P ...

[bluerain]

Thanks P17, its been a long road, but Im proud of where I have ended up. Of course, my ex is miserable, so that helps too! lol

No, you get me wrong there newmama. I know it's been like a grain of sand in the time it is likely to take. I was just curious as to why she is going so dark on me and whether it was normal.

I dont think that shes necessarily "going dark". I think that shes ignoring your existence and enjoying the guilt free pursuit of her affair. If she doesnt have to talk to you, then she doesnt have to feel bad about the lousy things that shes doing.