Sandi, your right. I am indecisive. I guess I have spent years trying to make her happy by doing things she wanted to do rather than things I wanted to do. I guess I got there cause whenever I made s suggestion, she discarded it, so I stopped and she has told me she is sick of making all the decisions. I have been working on it, but I still have a fair way to go. Even with the house, I made some decisions that she didn't like and she would say "it doesn't make sense, it's not logical" and stuff like that. I did stand up to her and I said that it made sense to me and I didn't purposly do something to upset her. So I got to the stage where I would ask her what she wanted and just do that.
But now when I stand up to her it leads to an argument.
