Well, I'm seriously thinking of going in tomorrow to file the financial support paperwork. I'm collecting the emails as evidence that he won't pay.
Good. Don't think. Just do it. You need to protect yourself first.
Step 1 - protect yourself legally.
Step 2 - work on M.
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Should I give him a warning?
No. No warning. Nothing. If you warn him, he'll try to talk you out of it and I think he could, if I'm honest. I think if you're honest too, you'll say he could.
BUT, when you don't warn him prepare for the wrath and it will be a wrath like you haven't seen yet. Tip, ignore it. That is easier said than done but you have done a great job up till now. Don't ruin all the hard work but responding to his childish, petty threats.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
