I am having a hard time just being his friend. I want more and it is getting harder and harder. He keeps telling me that I have never let go of him and that we are done. I think I am going down one of those cheeseless tunnels. I need to stop what I am doing and do a 180 right now. Why is it so hard to switch it up?

I saw him more when he was with the OW then I have since he broke up with her. It is almost like if he can't see her then I don't get to see him. Should I go dark? I'm confused. He is pulling further and further away now.


Me 44
Husband 42
Bomb 1/2009
OW 25
M 17 years

Orig thread
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1889368&page=1
ILYBNILWY 1/11/2009
separated 8/2009