"I don't want to have to TRAIN anyone on how to be loving"
You are so right about the pop culture. The movies & romantic novels have a lot of adults thinking they missed out b/c it isn't that way in their R. Women blame men b/c they read where men just "know" what to do. Men blame women for not telling them and expecting them to read minds. It's really sad, isn't it?
Maybe that is why romantic comedies don't do much for me anymore. Seems like when you've seen one.....you can predict what's going to happen ten minutes into the movie with all the others.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
