Originally Posted By: newmama
She has some pretty features, but is not BETTER looking than me ( my point is he did not trade up in looks! or w/ anything else as far as I can tell!)


To quote Sandi (I think it was), they never trade up. In my own sitch, W didn't trade up wither (but I'm bias).

As somebody else said to me 'of course he's a loser, that's all she could get' ...

She sounds like a big kid. When WH grows up and remembers that staying up till 3am with your buddies and OW playing Call Of Duty on the PS3, drinking, smoking and having fun is actually something you did when you were in your teens to twenties then he may actually remember he has a son, a loving wife and a huge mistake maybe he will come back.

Anyway, just a little rant. You're a good person newmama. He's lucky his son has such a great mother who knows what the word commitment means and how to spell it.


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"