If the affair breaks down! You will hopefully have worked on your issues in life. Made yourself stronger and learned about boundaries and 180'd yourself. You are now in a position to set boundaries and goals for your life. You now can choose to start a relationship with someone. Not because you need to be with someone. But because you choose to be with someone. Set the bar high. That person needs to be at least your equal. If they are not then your better off alone. And you can deal with being alone as well. Because only you can bring yourself happiness. Also just think of the rolemodel you will set with your daughter. A strong father who understands boundaries. Who achieves goals. Works hard. Learns. Adapts. Lives.


P.S. You help us get there as well.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!