You have every right to feel threatened. She threatened you!

IMHO, this is how to go. IF you think there is a shot at reconciliation, tell you you will discuss the FB issue in MC with her, and you will abide by the MC's recommendation. If the MC says you should drop the friend, you will. In return, she will discuss the possible need for IC in MC with you. If the MC recommends IC for her, she will. Tell her it's in the spirit of compromise.

I will add more later this evening if you like. Gotta run atm!.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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