The continuing saga of P ...

[P17]

I doubt she is out DBing you. She is living her life. Plus what do you care? You are incontrol of the relationship between you two now.

You're right. Sometimes we slip. I backslid a little. I did it here though.

I did, at least, not look at the FB pages. I suppose that is something.

Plan B.
Remove yourself from guessing what she is up to. You know all you need to know. Commiting adultery.

And also not care what she is up to. I wasn't really concerned with that (or I would have looked at the pics etc.). All I wanted to know was a) why did she go NC on me b) the coincidence thing about the pages being open to everyone.

I actually wanted to be told, again if I'm honest, that I was getting to them. That would have given me self-confidence, power and a bigger feeling of control. Actually what she was up to I didn't care about.

That's if, (and I'll say it again), I'm honest.

As Col. Potter would say.

Horse Cocky

I like Col. Potter's style ... is this the Col. from MASH?

A friend of mine sent this website out about detaching.
Its a great site. Well worth the read.
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/
Oh yea... That was you.

In my defence I did say I was better at giving advice than taking it.

We all need a reminder once in a while to keep us grounded. Thanks for the 2x4 cutter. It's appreciated.

Basically, I think what you all are saying is that while the A is going on, there is actually little for me to do with regards to the M or the relationship. It's all about me and D. When / if the A breaks down, then things may change.