Charcoal briquettes! I guess I'm trying to just think of something you can do that is 180. Maybe it's not filing for now. The gift is a dumb idea! Typing before thinking...

How are you DBD?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004