DBD, this could be completely off, but what if you not only IGNORED WH but made sure to get him a gift for Christmas? I don't know, like "kill him with kindness?" Something along those lines. It would be totally 180. (I totally get why you wouldn't want to do that right now, though.)

Let us know what your lawyer says. Why hasn't HE filed? I think it is OW pressuring him, that's why.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004