Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I want to clarify what I said about DBD's sitch (sorry DBD!).
I mean that it seems typical that someone, us or OP, will pressure our WS to divorce. So, just as DBD's WH has not filed yet, he is feeling pressure from OW to do so. He is lashing out. OW is also reading all emails and EXPECTING WH or DBD to file.
That's why everyone is telling DBD to wait it out...or stall in the least.After time goes by, OW is the nagging and unpredictable emotional one. Ideally, WH realizes that his own BW is not saying anything, is going on with her life, and he starts to second guess his decision. He realizes BW is becoming stronger, more improved, and WANTS the marriage. As the reality of the complications of D come to light for WH, he may just rethink things.
I don't know, just rambling a little, but logically it makes sense.