The H refuses to contact me to discuss things. Since I left him a message telling him I know everything he has cut off all contact and will not respond to anything. I know he is at least reading my texts since I sent him one last night and told him he needs to go ahead and get his car insurance switched. My agent called me this morning to let me know he had called her per my "request". In some ways I am finished but in my heart I still want to work things out. How can we even attempt to work things out if he has cut contact. He's refusing to face this. Any hope here that he will come around? I know it's stupid but now that I know there's someone else I can't seem to stop contacting him. I know I need to but he's my best friend. I've always gone to him with everything and now I can't. I just want to hear it from him that he's finished or whatever he's thinking now.


Me-29
H-37
M-5 yrs
T- total 10yrs- Best friends to dating to married
No kids together- He has S14
Got Speech-071509
Left-071609
Currently living apart
Legally Seperated 102809
Found out about OW 120709