Pat,

We all get weak moments. We're human. Trick is to recognise and not to make ANY decisions during those times as they are likely bite you on the a$$ some time sooner or later.

Make decision from a position of strength.

Originally Posted By: patpat
Like most of you guys I'm sure, have always gone at it alone. I have, it is just very hard to be in a position with no knowledge of what is going on, no control and wanting something you just can't have, all at the same time... if that makes any sense....


It makes perfect sense.

Trick here is to worry about the things you can control and ignore (or vent in my case) about things you can't.

The more you want her, the more she is going to back away.

Read up about 180's http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1701511#Post1701511


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"