Everyone is right - I did WAY too much today. I'm just way too emotional right now as PDT pointed out. I gathered my composure finally around the time I was driving home. Get home and in my room, can tell H has been in here. See a couple of pieces of black hard plastic on the floor that look like something was broken. I'm looking around and can't figure out what it is from. Finally look at a little table I have and realize that my little lamp is missing. Had noticed when I got home that H had brought in the garbage can, which he never does. Go to garbage can in the garage and there inside is my little lamp smashed to pieces.
When H just got home I took the little leftover pieces and brought them to where he was and sat them down on the counter next to him and just said very casually "you forgot a few pieces". As I'm walking back to my room, H "your lamp fell and broke" <------ LOL! In my room with door closed and H knocks and just needs to know where the extra power pack for his laptop was. Which he has never ever needed or used before and has taken his laptop with him many, many times...again, funny. Then he left.
I see the lawyer in the morning. Hopefully he'll be good and I can hire him.
Last edited by aflowergurlie; 12/16/0912:02 AM.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced