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There is nothing earth shatteringly wrong about an adult staying up all night once in a while.


Ok, I'll buy that but then again, she volunteered the info I assume to elicit a certain response out of me. Whatever.

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This is rather childish, no? If you have no interest in saving your M, why post here? If you are interested in saving your M, then why would you insist on stringing along some woman who is interested in inappropriate chat with a married man in order to hurt your W?



Is it childish? I haven't strung anyone along. I have asked my wife to go to counseling and given her the opportunity to go on dates with me and she feels like she can dictate how she's going to come home. I guess I wouldn't still be posting here if there wasn't some part of me that wasnt interested in saving my marriage. I haven't been chatting with this woman in an inappropriate manner either. My wife just has that perception even though I've told my wife that we are just friends. And yes, I have been struggling with how to handle this. An no, my goal is not to hurt my wife.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!