You know Jstar, is this going to stop? I think that this should be a hard and fast boundary. If you both need anger managment help then so be it, but your kids cant see this. Do you want your daughter being abused? Or your son thinking that its ok to do that to his wife?

I know in Ak, if you can prove that you have been separated for two years, you can get a D whether the other party participates or not.

You wanting to be with him for this kids is understandable, its an honorable thing for a mother to be willing to "take one for the team" to keep her family intact, but this an abusive relationship is not in their best interest.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...