Bunny--PLEASE don't be alone with someone--including your H--until you do some serious work on boundaries. When you've spent years with a controlling or abusive partner, it's a natural consequence to lose your boundaries. Please commit yourself to some serious work on this issue, for your own growth and healing.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012