Ok, so I have not initiated contact in over 24 hours! But here’s my dilemma. I need to speak with him about what we are doing for Christmas. Original plan was for him to spend it with us, then we fought and I told him I had to think about it. Since it’s next week already, I need to let him know. He stopped by to see daughter today and then tried to leave without saying bye. I said bye as he was out the door, but I couldn’t bring anything up because daughter was there. I just wanted to tell him I would like to speak with him and could I call him tomorrow sometime. My problem is I won’t see him until Friday night. Do I wait until then or do I just email him and ask him if we can talk tomorrow? Or when he calls daughter to say goodnight, do I ask then because that's not really initiating contact? HELP!