You are doing WAY too much talking with him at this point. Way too much explaining, way too much justifying. The is beyond "talk to the hand", this is talk to my attorney.
The only conversations you should be taking part in, maybe, are listening to his apologies and/or begging for you to take him back.
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I'm just a money-grubbing bitch and he knew this is what is going to come down to, I was just waiting to take advantage of the situation and get him for anything I could. If I do it again, my stuff will be out by the street, he's kicking me out of the master bedroom, he wants rent money back from me, he's getting a lawyer for himself and on and on.
...fine, here is my lawyer's name and number. Have your attorney talk to my attorney, have a nice day, bye...
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I told him that I was trying to get this done in the most quickest and least costly manner possible. But if he wanted to keep it up, we'll go down the other road and he'll see just how bad it will get. He wants to play dangerous games, we'll play. In the eyes of the law he has squandered almost $10,000 in the past few months, etc.
STOP! You owe him no explanation. Stop educating him. Let your lawyer explain this to his lawyer. You are giving away your edge and making yourself look small. The less talking you do, the better at this point. Be DARK, let him stew.
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Touch another penny in that account and you'll see what happens." followed with I need you to go to the bank with me to close out the account. I just replied "Find out from the bank what needs to be done and let me know. Bye."
Just got a text from him - "I want to sit down calmly as two adults and figure out exactly what we both realistically are looking for as an outcome for all of this. I also left paperwork on the bar that needs to be signed. Want to sit down with you tmrw."
....again, whatever, have your attorney sit down with my attorney. DO NOT sit down with him, negotiate, sign or agree, even verbally, to anything.
pffft...touch another penny??!! Take it all and let his attorney file something compelling you to return it. Do not be bullied.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
