we both have committed domestic violence on each other. it started with him doing crap to me and i would not takeit anymore and started to defend myself. not that it's an excuse.
Um, defending yourself is not "committing domestic violence". It's defending yourself.
Originally Posted By: Jstar
getting him served has always been a problem. he darts around all the other lawsuits he is being litigated against and his family protects him big time. i have some tricks up my sleeve how to tget him served, just takes a little planning.
Invite him over to see D2 and have the process server waiting in a car outside?
Originally Posted By: Jstar
i think about this crap and i'm like, uh i want to be with him, why, for my children, do i really love him, not enough, can he change. so much stuff and i can sense my stress level coming up. exactly what i've been trying to avoid.
He will not choose to change on his own. You have to make him want to come back, then set boundaries that he must respect in order to do so.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
