If she has plans Thursday say "great W! Go ahead with your plans, I will take the girls that night too." Let her give up a few nights without losing yours.
That is a good idea SO2. I will suggest that tonight if it gets brought up.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...