Need Some Qwik Advice

[TrentC]

What is there to contest?

I can't stop her from doing it.

I may not want a divorce but the, fact is the fact.

It's your choice.

If you change your mind and decide you want to try to fight and save your marriage (or recreate it), we'll be here.

[OnceBurdened]

Yeah - I hear you but she has also said she see's no other alternative, there is to much fire, she can't be here knowing she cares for him, yadayadayada.

I know me if it's over - I won't much care to be best friends or buddies. This has been a 6 mos. battle full of lies and pain. I won't want to revist "small talk" just to be cordial especially with the in my face nature of the OM, being a friend and coaching together.

[TrentC]

Yeah - I hear you but she has also said she see's no other alternative, there is to much fire, she can't be here knowing she cares for him, yadayadayada.

Keep in mind -- Greek was the one saying that kind of thing to her husband. If she says a wife can come around, I think she's in a position to know.

[P17]

Yeah - I hear you but she has also said she see's no other alternative, there is to much fire, she can't be here knowing she cares for him, yadayadayada.

Have I missed something here, and forgive me if I have. It's all about her, she, this and that. It sounds a bit like a pity party. Who gives a rats a$$ what she wants. What do YOU want?

How about you contest it? Buy yourself some time and DB her a$$ off?

I know me if it's over - I won't much care to be best friends or buddies. This has been a 6 mos. battle full of lies and pain. I won't want to revist "small talk" just to be cordial especially witht the in my face nature of it.

Totally understand that. That is the route I will go with my W, and I have told her that. But that is YOUR choice.

[Greek]

Yeah - I hear you but she has also said she see's no other alternative, there is to much fire, she can't be here knowing she cares for him, yadayadayada.

We are not buying stock in what she says, OB. I was "done", too. And now look at me. There is a lot for both of you to learn. She doesn't KNOW as much as she thinks she does. Same goes for you, bud.

Hope!
Greek

[OnceBurdened]

I hear you, I know what I want.

I have informed her that I am getting my own attorney.

F the pity party - your right.

[P17]

I hear you, I know what I want.

I have informed her that I am getting my own attorney.

F the pity party - your right.

Good man. Pick those b*lls up and get on with it. This is NOT about her, this is about YOU.

"Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty... I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well." -- Theodore Roosevelt

[OnceBurdened]

She must not of liked that- Immediatelly 8 no 9 calls in a row!

[TrentC]

She must not of liked that- Immediatelly 8 no 9 calls in a row!

Too bad you're too busy to answer them... right?

[OnceBurdened]

Woops - i did answer on no. 15 or so.

She said why are you going to get an atty? I knew you were going to get sh*ty.

I said - I don't trust you and I'm only retaining one to review and explain.

She said fine than you can use mine and I won't get one. I don't want to spend extra money.

I said it wasn't about the money and you can clean up this mess ormake it bigger, don't tell me what to do and I won't tell you.