Gotta Keep Trying 2

[Dia]

let me make sure I didn't miss anything....

So she said she'd go to MC, but not to discuss reconciliation, right? So you cancelled the appt?

I think you did the right thing. There's a trite-but-true counseling joke that goes about like this...

"How many MC's does it take to change a lightbulb? - Just one, but the lightbulb has to really WANT to change."

From what I read, she doesn't want to change, and as long as that's the case, MC is just expensive, time-consuming futility.