K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

Ya, I'm sure one of 2 things is going on. Either 1) She and they are all still planning on getting together after the performance so she is put off by the fact that now she won't have the girls to bring or 2) She made plans for Thursday night and is now annoyed that she will have to cancel them to spend time with her girls because the birthday plans fell through on my night. I am not sure which, but I think one of those 2 is probably the case.

I would not doubt that I am going to get the same line I always get from her anytime the schedule gets tweaked. I always get "I had plans" every single time. My inside wants to say I don't care about your plans. I could honestly care less. You never care about mine. And you ALWAYS have plans. There is NEVER a moment when you don't have plans. It never fails that I always get that line from her.

But I never say that to her, I just keep quiet and try and work things out with her. I fume sometimes under my breath, but I hold back as I have learned that lesson very well. I try to show understanding to her feelings for her. But I am also trying to set some boundaries and I think this is one of them. I think if I just let her have her way all the time, that is not necessarily the best thing for me or the girls.

Kevin