Originally Posted By: overburdened
Yeah - I hear you but she has also said she see's no other alternative, there is to much fire, she can't be here knowing she cares for him, yadayadayada.


Have I missed something here, and forgive me if I have. It's all about her, she, this and that. It sounds a bit like a pity party. Who gives a rats a$$ what she wants. What do YOU want?

How about you contest it? Buy yourself some time and DB her a$$ off?

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I know me if it's over - I won't much care to be best friends or buddies. This has been a 6 mos. battle full of lies and pain. I won't want to revist "small talk" just to be cordial especially witht the in my face nature of it.


Totally understand that. That is the route I will go with my W, and I have told her that. But that is YOUR choice.

Last edited by P17; 12/15/09 09:55 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
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