Yeah - I hear you but she has also said she see's no other alternative, there is to much fire, she can't be here knowing she cares for him, yadayadayada.
Keep in mind -- Greek was the one saying that kind of thing to her husband. If she says a wife can come around, I think she's in a position to know.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement