Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ya, I am taking advantage of every bone she throws my way. Honestly, I don't think she has any idea what she is doing.

She is completely different than when I knew her. She has new friends, etc.

The "fixer" in me wants to help her, but I know that I can't.

When I think of all these things I feel sorry for her, because she has done some horribly irresponsible things to herself, my boys, and me.

I really don't believe my W will change, or come out of this "fog", she is in. I think she likes her lifestyle, and is angry at me for putting a dent in it. She wants to keep doing whatever it is she is doing, and I am standing in the way of that.