I would suggest #2 You really need to GAL and 180 and show it. But I have no idea what your mini goals are. Nor your long term goals.
Do you even write out what happened when you try something.
Do you know everything that has worked the last month? Do you know everything that has not worked the last month?
Start to keep a log. Start putting some effort in your marriage here. Talk is just that. Talk.
Actions. Purpose.
Stop just saying yes I will do this I will do that.
DO SOMETHING.
GET MAD AT US. TELL US WERE TELLING YOU B.S. ARGUE WITH US. SHOW SOME PASSION. WE ARE WILLING TO HELP. BUT YOU GOTTA START HELPING YOURSELF. YES I AM YELLING. I WOULD PUT THIS AT 96 FONT SIZE AS WELL.
Then take a good old fashioned 2x4 in the head and get to work.
What self help books are you reading?
Ever go to the book store and hit the sex section for couples?
Why not go there tonight and get a book on sex for couples and another book on romance for couples.
Start to read and learn.
You have some end goals in place right ? Are you preparing for them?
I have no idea. You agree to everything even when its conflicting.
If it gets this much rise out of me...... just think about those around you....
Interesting quote. I disagree with it. I think beauty grows as woman age. I would take a 40 year old woman over a 20 year old woman without thinking about it. A 40 year old has so much more character. Strength of purpose. You know she has survived 40 years of crap tossed her way. She knows her skin. She knows [censored] when she sees it. To me this is damn sexy. Sure the young ones are nice to look at for awhile. But its just a scratch on the surface. Beauty is more than looks. And a woman in her 40's is in her prime. She is a woman.
And yes loyalty does count. But learning from our mistakes counts for more. For its not the misakes that define us. Its how we learn and deal with our mistakes that define us.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
i'm reading as much as i can, going to this site and talking with a DB coach. i've read and rereading michelles's books. i'm keeping a small notebook trying to organize thoughts and goals.Also while running a business. Thank you all for bearing with me!!
but why then does she initiate so many plans for us ? (gym, movies, dinner out, shopping, mall, massages together, church,etc.. IF she feels smothered? I must admit, however, that she did at times use that word (smothered).
i'm reading as much as i can, going to this site and talking with a DB coach. i've read and rereading michelles's books. i'm keeping a small notebook trying to organize thoughts and goals.Also while running a business. Thank you all for bearing with me!!
Post some of this.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
I'M VERY UPSET right now.....PLEASE SOMEONE RESPOND!!! I saw wifes car just now at he apartment of someone whom she once said was only a friend (BULL S--T). now she's home. Do I say something and look like the pursuing spy. Please Advise!!!!Help, want to scream!!!!!!!!!!!
