Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Could you in a sly way leave up dating web sites? If you hubby sees them you could say "yeah, I've started to think about it, I mean I would love for us to be together again but if you don't want to, I need to start to think about moving on. I just am nervous about introducing son to another man you know. Hmm *sigh*"

I DO have a profile started on Match.com. Yesterday, WH was glancing toward the laptop but it was open to something innocuous (sp?). I really think that your suggested words would be really good to use somewhere toward mid to end January!Based on what I know about my WH, I think these words are useful!But too soon. Ihave to listen to my gut combined with the advice of others. My gut has been right usually about bad things, but once in awhile I trusted it for good things and it was right. It's ALWAYS right about PEOPLE. I just am proud of that.

If the OW is pressuring H then I would steer clear of anything that looks like pressure from your sure. If you give her enough rope, maybe she will hang herself ... metaphorically speaking of course ... ahem.

P17, THIS is what I feel could be happening currently. I could be mindreading but I think I want to just hold out a little longer and see. It pains others more than me, possibly, to see me holding out on bringing up D. BUT I have only been acting the way I have since end of October-beginning November. Less than 2 months. I have avoided talk about our R or D since forever-like May.